It is a Journey that Defies Labels

Tom and C were on Gracie Passette's Cult of Gracie radio show on July 23. I missed the live broadcast but listened to the archived show with my husband the other night. Tom and C. are on a journey and their relationship with each other, their chosen sex partners, and significant others in their lives is evolving. Polyamorously Perverse: We're Going to Be on the Radio
Yes, my favorite Little Witch , I am referring to you as a significant other. You are too significant to be ignored and too far away yet to join them in bed. I did agree with Gracie that an Amazon box for the purpose of bring all of you together was a good idea. The radio show is a blog radio production and is available for download.

Below is from Gracie's blog: Cult Of Gracie: Cult of Gracie Radio Show Line-Up
July 23 Tom Paine & C. the husband and wife of Polyamorously Perverse fame, who continue to amaze & educate as Tom discusses the private & intimate details of their road of exploration & discovery ~ one which often exposes the unforeseen with brutal, if poetic, honesty.
Miss the show? Listen to the archived show (or download it for later listening) here.



What I enjoyed of the interview was listening to C. She was the star of the show with her brutal honesty, her humbleness at being the focus of Tom's adoration, and her ability to cut to the heart of the question. Tom was wonderful in his explanations as I expected but he let C. shine.

My husband did think the questioning rambled a bit. However, we both appreciated Tom's and C.'s candid answers to the questions being asked. The show resulted in a lot of pillow talk between hubby and I concerning our own journey and the lack of labels that define its twists and turns. If you are looking to open your relationship that has been monogamous. If you are wondering about the ups and downs of life beyond monogamy and want a viewpoint is not sugar coated. I urge you to read their blog and listen to the radio show. I do not always agree with everything Tom's writes or shares. However, I respect his viewpoint and enjoy the discussion. I have good company in that C. and Little Witch do not always agree either. However, I enjoy lively debate and friends with a different perspective than mine own on some topics I want to thank Tom and C for huddling in their car during a thunderstorm for the interview.

When you are on a journey that is evolving it gets tiresome when people try to put labels on your relationship. My marriage and some of my significant relationships have aspects of poly or swinger but do not fit the definitions as the experts in those relationships would dictate. Tom and C. are not living to any one's expectations or definitions but their own. Their blog and Tom's writing reflect a unique perspective and a journey that will continue to defy labels. My only wish for the both of them is that along the way they experience happiness, bliss, and a peaceful unity that celebrates their differences. Hugs and Kisses Tom and C. (ps. you too, Little Witch )